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So we’re all familiar with the term “surf ‘n’ turf.” It’s used usually to describe steak and seafood, sometimes a scampi dredged over a succulent prime rib, or a filet miñon accompanied by a lobster tail and lemon butter sauce. Yum! Right?

But how about if we put the “surf” inside the “turf” ?

Not only do you get an easy amazing combo, you also save a little money while your at it.

Anytime I’m creating I always have to have a good jam playing, usually Sublime Radio on pandora. Right now I actually have the eagles playing, with some Hotel California.

So maybe as you get ready to start cooking you might turn up some of your favorites too!

So let’s get started!

Here’s the unconventional lineup of your ingredients:

•Flank Steak(Local Natural Grass fed. thin sliced)
•Fresh shrimp
•Butter w/ olive oil
•cream cheese
•Green Onions
•Fresh minced Garlic (Christopher Ranch for you real garlic lovers.
•Heavy Cream
•Truffle Butter
•whole butter potatoes(side)
•parsley (for garnish- to impress the ladies) 😁😉
•cooking string (just in case)

The saving money part comes from having cream cheese, eggs, butter and those types of ingredient already in the house. The truffle butter can be hard to find and a little more expensive though, however you will be saving money on not having to buy multiple thick cut prime steaks.

Create your Waves
First clean the seafood, and peel shrimp if needed. Then toss scallops and shrimp in kooking pan with butter and garlic. In a microwave safe bowl cook cream cheese and chopped green onions on high until smooth and able to stir evenly. When seafood and cheese are both done mix shrimp and scallops with the butter into the melted cheese and mix evenly. Let mix sit to thicken.

Meanwhile on the mainlandprep oven at 375
Take the flat pieces of flank steak and char each side in flat cooking pan. I like to throw on some Montreal seasoning or whatever else I may have to add extra flavor. Pull the steak off with a quick char, but not cooked on inside(this is mostly to keep raw juices from contaminating our filling)You want to spread the steak out flat and even over wax paper that sits on a thin towel. Then spread the seafood filling with an even thickness over the entire steak but leaving space on the Ends where you will fold steak over. Then using the towel begin to roll your steak, when completely done fold down ends. If needed, use cooking rope to tie up. Place in center of oven. Cook until it smells good!

Truffle it up
In a sauce pan sauté cut mushrooms that you cleaned first 😉 then pour in the cream and cook till simmer over medium heat. Add truffle butter and toss in a pinch of salt and pepper keeping heat very very low, not to burn the truffle butter. Keep swirling around until melted.

In a separate bowl pour in truffle cream, add egg and mix. This is merely for cosmetic garnish on plate

At some point in all of this yumminess you want to go ahead and slightly boil then bake butter potatoes for your side.

When the roll is done let stand then slice into 1inch filets.
On a plate drizzle garnish sauce, then place 1 slice and dredge with truffle cream. Place baked potato on plate and parsley for garnish.

I can promise that you and your guests will want to eat this then another for desert.
Speaking of stop in tomorrow for a FoodDude desert recipe 😜

Once again friends-


Reference: Barefoot Contessa- food Network for the truffle butter cream(minus mushrooms)


So this blog isn’t about food or anything related to food, except for the fact that we all make and eat it, haha

The visual concept of men and women in relationship is that women, well are smarter than men. And let’s be honest, in today’s society it would Appear so. But once apon a time man rules the household and the term given was, “daddy dearest.” In most relationships, the man looks like the bigger skrew up. And let’s be honest men, we are pretty good at jacking things up. But if we’re being honest here the real truth is that we ARE skrew ups, all of us, and WE as man are going to jack things up.
So as smart as women are supposed to be, why can’t they see this and understand. I mean you definitely have your douche-bags, but what about the guy that is truly himself, and loves extremely hard. Why do you run? I mean that’s the one who is going to say and do all the wrong things! Why? Because he likes you! And who he is, he is a failure, a sinner, a joke. But who he is made to be, is a hero, a lover, A leader, all it takes is one that can see past the dirt and is ready to follow.
Someone I know once said, all they want is for someone to accept them, someone who holds that “come as you are” attitude. The way Jesus loves is like this, and so, the way I love will always be this.

“”But Adam, no suitable helper was found. So The Lord caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the mans ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then The Lord God mad a Woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, ” this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, for she was taken out of man. “” Gen 3:20-23

When I was a kid I remember my grandpa’s favorite all time meal being SoS or $h.. on a Shingle. My Grandpa is a retired Mp from the old school army air core. Hes a man of honor and integrity and an an amazing leader for our family. Today this new take on an old military recipe is inspired by him.

As an ex cook in the US Army myself, its also my favorite meal that i learned to cook. However, it has gone from the creamy chipped beef to ground beef gravy. Ill be honest i love to make it more in a breakfast gravy fashion with ground maple sausage over a fluffy  scramble. But tonight i’m gonna go the extra and give you a fun different take on this old favorite.

Corn Hole SoS


  • Chipped Corned Beef
  • Flour- all purpose
  • Butter
  • Siracha
  • half cup heavy cream
  • half cup milk
  • Sweet yellow onion
  • Swiss Cheese
  • black pepper
  • bay leaf
  • chicken stock
  • Sour Dough bagel


You can crock pot the corned beef- for 8 hours on low with chicken stock, black pepper and a bay leaf.

For the cream, you want to start by melting and half stick of butter stirring in flour little by little until its an even sticky rue goo. Stir in cream and slowly add milk as need to  thin out.  Lower heat and Stir evenly not letting rue burn.  you can also pull heat back and cover reach thickening faster yet you want to keep stirring regularly for evenness. Season with salt and a couple good squeezes of siracha.

Cut and Caramelize onions in a separate pan with butter.

Toast a Sour Dough bagel and place a slice of swiss on top. Put grilled onions on cheese then top with chipped corned beef. Pour Cream over entirety of the open faced sammy and vwalla

The Corn Hole SoS!!!

Now I didn’t use specifics on the measurements because the truth is, and what every military cook will tell you is that even though we are taught by recipe, it was common to improvise and season by taste, that is when  we seasoned. Typical SoS was originally pretty bland as most military recipes due to  allergies and all the different taste buds you got coming through the defac on the regular basis, hooah.

I hope some of you will try this amazing take on our old favorite and maybe send some feedback over on how it went for you. The truth is i wasn’t able to go to the dust bowl and regret some of the choices that kept me from serving next to all my pals, i was so blessed and privileged to train under and with you, and today i salute you all along with my Grandpa Kit and my close fam and friends who served.

Happy Vets Day!!!!- TheFoodDude!!!



Apple Jalapeño cream stuffed Sirloin Burgers w/ a apple cider vinegar cilantro aioli… Ummm, yes please!


Burger patties
•Fresh sirloin- I picked up fresh young sirloin steaks and asked the butcher to grind it up for me
•Grape Jelly- yup 1/2 cup or so will do
•1/4 cup chopped red onion
•Spices: mesquite, black pepper, sea salt, garlic salt, chili powder, parsley and Montreal steak season

Apple Jalapeño cream cheese filling
•1 Granny smith Apple- I used organic
•4 tablespoons of sliced pickled jalapeños(I was lucky enough to have gotten some homegrown jalapeños canned by some friends-great touch)
•1 12 oz container of soft cream cheese
•shredded Parmesan cheese
•sliver slice jalapeños and 1/2 apples as small as possible then place in medium bowl with 12oz of cream cheese and small handful of shredded parm.

Put 1lb of ground sirloin 1/2 cup grape jelly, chopped red onion and all seasoning (by preference) except Montreal seasoning in a separate large bowl & mix evenly with bare hands until meat has an even infusion of all ingredients. Knead together then roll into balls. Then flatten into about 5 in cir patties and with your thumb make a little pool In the center.
Place dallup of filling in center pool on patties. Then in the same fashion as before flatten more patties just a little smaller and flatter and place on top, smoothing out and making one large stuffed patty. Then sprinkle Montreal steak seasoning on top each patty.
Place cookie sheet in fridge to settle 20minutes.

Cook patties in oven for about 10 minutes then toss on grill for char only about 3 minutes.
Top with pepper corn bacon and garnish with baby spinach and homemade aioli (instructions for both below) we served burgers on a honey wheat bun from trader joes but you can really do it how you want .enjoy!

Crackle black pepper on bottom of pan then place bacon in baking pan. Crackle more black pepper on top and spritz with apple cider vinegar and bake till crisp at 350

Apple cider vinegar & cilantro aioli
•1/2 cup extra virgin olive oil
•1/2 cup grapeseed oil
•1 large egg
•1 tspn Dijon mustard
•2 medium garlic cloves
•sea salt
•1tspn apple cider vinegar
•cilantro- medium handful
•1/2 a lemon

Put egg, Dijon, and garlic in blender and blend till even on high. Then on low slowly pour in olive oil and then grapeseed oil, about 10 seconds. Add cilantro, two grinds from the sea salt shaker and squeeze of that half Lemmon then pulse 4 times.

I promise you absolutely love this aioli- and it can be re-used the next day as a salad dressing.

Checkout the pictures in process on my Facebook by searching Hospitable Me.

One of the best ways to influence peoples lives I believe is through the meals we share. I’m blessed with a passion not just for food but for loving people whole heartedly. My “Hospitable Me” campaign, though just beginning will give me a chance to use my gifts to enjoy people and share Gods love.

I hope you enjoy- RockOn-BuonApetite&OneLove

The FoodDude



A Burger to die for!.